Before I had access to the first three waves of feminist literature, fictional plants and animals offered me antiquated warnings on growing up female.

The author’s stack of children’s books laying it out about misogyny

Have you ever reviewed the messaging in a stack of books you read as a child to unpack the sense of doom you felt growing up in the eighties? My brain still pages through these long overdue check-outs from the library of how to be a girl. Before the work of bell hooks, Audre Lorde, Rebecca Walker, Kate Bornstein, and Naomi Wolf took hold in my heart, I had these suspect texts and their unsubtle anti-feminist lessons.

Look appreciative when a man teaches you something basic.

Ladies, meet your man this June!

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Are you exhausted by the dating pool? Do you feel like maybe there aren’t any good men around? They say there are plenty of fish in the sea, but quality women don’t mess up their blow-out by swimming. And right now there are billions of cicadas emerging from underground as part of a group called Brood X. So. Hot.

These husky creatures are only seventeen years old; so eek, minors! But honestly, they’re so ready to sing for your love you’d think they’d already graduated college at the top of their a cappella group’s roster. Yes please, dude in a…

Woes of a solopreneur attempting vacation

Photograph by the author, who was clearly being read for filth by this Blue Q pencil case

For the past two weeks and a few days, I’ve stayed out of my work inbox and kept my auto-responder on official guard duty. I made sure to warn all my clients that this was going to happen, and to take care of everyone before I took flight. No one’s house will set on fire meanwhile. At very least there are no glowing embers that can’t hang tight until I’m back open for business.

You’d think after seventeen straight months of almost no days off — one of the difficulties of being amongst those with a job during the pandemic…

Can you tell I wrote this? — Audrey

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Are you truly delighted when people who you consider to be otherwise thoughtful, mentally sharp humans engage in the at best duplicative and at worst daftly ignorant act of signing their own name to something written in any public form already earmarked as coming from them?

Back in the later aughts when Facebook went from a sparsely populated college town — how awkward it was and self-absorbed it seemed in those days to ask a roommate to take your profile pic! …

These baked goods take on challenges past their pay grade.

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Hello, I am exhausted but somehow managed to make twelve baby banana breads I’ve now assigned the job of fixing all my woes! As per this gig economy, they downloaded the app to help but realized their hourly after getting hired would end up being trash and barely tried. Here are all the ways that these muffins decidedly did not solve my current problems.


How much did I truly need the comfort of dessert after hauling all my possessions into my new home in the middle of the pandemic? So very much. Yet these muffins did not deliver. Was there…

Gen Z, the 90s called to warn you about its terrible choice of toppers.

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Do you know what a bucket hat is?

An accessory only fit for preschool beach castle building. Fodder for Goodwill, where it can hold their stock of tiny unusable purses. Something made popular in the 90s which now emerges en masse decades later like a shoddy gang of exhausted locusts to manipulate Generation Z and the rest of us to look our worst.


This Silicon Valley biotech company really looks out for those in need!

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REDWOOD CITY, CA — While most biotech start-ups in Silicon Valley pursue medical innovations to transform provider care and patient experience, up-and-coming Gutsee led by CEO Eve Tran has stretched their aspirations from curing embarrassing digestive problems into offering government-backed rental relief.

The company primarily delivers detailed analysis of the gut microbiome in the direct-to-customer space, which is another way of saying you will never escape their targeted ads on YouTube. …

Adulting followed by a fluffy blanket.

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Mature enough to do what needs to get done, but immature enough to still be a full human being? Here are some suggestions to back up your best adulting with some time in the comfort zone.

Open and fund a Roth IRA

Buy a white vintage bow bikini and daisy swimcap on credit even though it seems you will not get into a pool until 2022.

Donate money and networking time to an organization that helps prevent hate crimes

Watch a soapy Freeform show about moody teenagers who have unbelievable but compelling plot arcs that you fully invest in emotionally.

Make amends with your mother for a difficult conversation

Eat a pint of Trader Joe’s coconut milk coffee ice cream with boba while priding yourself on managing to…

No thank you for disregarding our wealth of experience.

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Taking myself and my work seriously while female has elicited this one comment way too many times. Especially amongst those without any context of what I have earned or accomplished. “You have so much potential,” total strangers often like to say after seeing something I’ve made or reading something I’ve written or watching something I’ve filmed.

Sometimes these comments come from acquaintances: a wardrobe stylist dressing me for a role, imagining how I might outfit myself in real life; a makeup artist noting how my features respond to Giorgio Armani foundation; or someone not nearly as far along with running…

I offer you nearly unsolvable conundrums such as this year’s coronavirus tax relief game plan.

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While normally Americans must file their taxes by April 15th, this year the deadline is May 17th. The IRS hopes to “ease the burden on filers dealing with the economic upheaval caused by the coronavirus, which has put millions out of work or caused their hours to be cut,” writes Alan Rappaport in the New York Times.

Greetings, exhausted seeker! You have trekked through the financial desert of 2020 to where I, the Internal Revenue Service, reside on Constitution Avenue. You may get off your dusty camel, but please keep your mask on. …

Audrey Dundee Hannah

Actor. Human cockatoo. Recently adopted a child's backpack.

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